Last summer we couldn't deny his desire to have an aquarium and after promising that he would take care of the tank himself, we realized that he did indeed seem like he would stand true to his promise and we allowed him to get a fish tank. Not one to be excluded, my daughter set up her own much smaller tank with a Betta fish.
So how will you know if your child is ready for a pet? I have a few questions that you can ask yourself that might help you decide if your child is ready for the responsibility of a pet.
About six years ago we got a family dog. Sophie has taught us many things and I see great value in having a family pet. I knew that when we got a dog, she would be a loyal member of our family. No one person would "own" her, she would be all of ours and while the kids promised lots of things {they would always clean up the poop in the yard-HA!}, we would all take care of her.
When my son was asking to get fish as pets, those would be his responsibility. Something he would take care of, with our help as needed. So how did we know that he was ready for taking on that responsibility on his own?
Well, we had seen him with our dog. You may not have a family pet already, but you may have seen your child exhibit signs of responsibility in other areas. Do they handle their belongings with care? Do they take their current responsibilities seriously? Is your child able to remember and follow through on daily tasks like brushing their own teeth?
You want to make sure that your child can remember the daily task of feeding their animal the correct amount {this is so important, especially if you have fish!}, and that when it's time to change the water or clean a cage, your child can handle most of that task on their own and they do it in a timely manner.
my daughter's set up for her Beta fish named Luna
Another thing that your family should take into consideration is the amount of time you have to invest in a certain animal. We spent a lot of time at our local PetSmart before we set up the tank to find out what would be involved in taking care of a fish tank. The employees were super helpful. Every one we talked to had a tank of their own at home and had lots of experience to draw on. We had a dog sitter for our puppy, but if we left on vacation what would we do if we had a 10-gallon tank full of fish?
The PetSmart staff assured us that there were feeders that we could buy if we were going to be gone for a few days. If your family is often gone or if your child has a sleepover, who will take on the responsibility of the animal when your child can't do it? My kids take turns helping each other out if they have sleepovers. They take great care in turning off the tank light at night to allow the fish time to unwind and make sure that they consistently feed the fish at the same time every day.
You also want to make sure that you have a helpful resource to turn to if you have questions regarding your new pet. Of course we have a vet for our dog, but we rely on the helpful support and knowledge from the PetSmart team. They are our go to source if we have any questions. Who can you turn to if you or your child have questions about the care of your pet?
We had never had a fish tank before and there was a lot more to it than just making sure that the fish had clean water and fish food. The PetSmart staff helped us figure out what kind of fish would work best in my son's aquarium, and which fish would be happy together and then gave us all the details we needed to know how frequently to change the water {every two weeks} and how much water to change. They even pointed us in the right direction for what kinds of chemicals to use to keep the fish water a happy, healthy place for my son's fish.
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